Fate or destiny.

I don’t believe in fate nor destiny and imagine this is what was progranda I or programs of advertisement or people’s word of mouth talking to each other and then turns into your own programming thinking and believing that fate or destiny has something to do with you. Are I that sure that such words actually exist to use as a programming in this life? If I see as it is and understand this is just words, every sect of different indoctrination faiths progranda fate or destiny as part of their ongoing rituals as it is seen in their house of temples, churches or mosques. Does fate or destiny really exist? Or was it just a made up words born in to this incarnate live to be living and receiving all these bombarded advertisements or saying of society that made up by people saying such words about fate or destiny. Why am  stupid to stoop so low? In the past, it was always about fate or destiny. Now I’m just thinking about what fate or destiny goes to do with anything of this? It is so weird now I am questioning every single thought or orchestrated from the other side. I am finding it funny to look and seek the answer as I want to clarify every single thing that is happening to me. Is it fate or destiny is my line of questioning?