The unconfident one

Who is the most confident person you know?

The most unconfident person is me. I realized that everything and anything is about me—my world revolves around me, not the other way around. I have been labeled a timid person.

What was the cause of it?

As a young kid, I refused to do a task simply because a stubborn teacher insisted I had to. Imagine being forced to do something I wasn’t comfortable with. As I grew up, this feeling of timidity followed me through every stage of life.

What did I do to overcome this obstacle?

I decided to do everything from my heart—boldly, without hesitation or looking back. If another person refuses or wants to discuss it, but my heart says to go for it, I just do it without hesitation. Nobody cares what I think, as long as I do it anyway.

The outcome, whether a disaster or a success, always happens. The important lesson is that when I find myself in a disaster, I must learn from my mistakes in detail and move on. If I repeat the same mistake, I will know how to handle it differently next time to achieve a better outcome. There is no right or wrong answer.

Second incident:

I see myself as a painter-writer, creating images with words just as an artist paints on canvas. Each stroke of my pen, like each brushstroke, builds a picture I may not fully envision at first. The more I write, the clearer the image becomes. Every obstacle I face adds depth and detail, shaping my work and my confidence. Over time, I have learned that the same techniques can be applied repeatedly in different scenarios, allowing me to refine my craft. Each time I break through a challenge, I do it faster and more skillfully.

Writing, like painting, is an evolving process. I may not always know where my words will lead, but in the end, I am the most confident version of myself.